Jessica sat across from me, scrolling through photos on her phone. "9 AM—these are the waves I spent an hour creating. And here, same day, 12:30 PM. Gone."
She'd followed the curl girl method for twelve years. DevaCurl cream. Ouidad gel. Plopping. Diffusing. Scrunching every fifteen minutes. Deva cuts every six weeks. She knew her porosity and her "curl type" (she'd been told 3A).
"Every morning, my hair looks perfect. By lunch, it's flat. My coworkers think I straighten it during my break."
She thought it was humidity. She thought it was her technique. She thought her hair was "changing" with age.